Yes! Yes! Okay, not really. No to all of it. Valentines day is lame. Do your husband a favor. Drop any and all expectations of him sending you flowers... or getting you candy.... or perfume... or buying one of those really lame, over-advertised heart pendants made out of diamond chips and set in 14k white gold, and just say. "Babe, for Valentines day, let's get the kids to bed early and have a candle lit picnic in the living room." It'll make his month. Trust me.